Yes, I am very aware Valentine’s Day was yesterday…but today seems appropriate for this convo. Sometimes we build up the ideal ‘Valentine’s’…setting high expectations from our loves to wine, dine and adorn us with something sparkly. Sounds perfect, right? Yet the day after (if any one or all of these ideals didn’t happen) we feel let down. Why didn’t we get the special treatment? It was the day of Love after all? Do they even love us?
Hold up…here’s a thought. How about you Treat Yo’ Self? Instead of setting your partner up for failure, why not handle your own? If you want to be made feel special, then do it! Yourself! Of course, I still think we should all be treated with love and respect from our significant others, but really, sometimes just spoiling yourself is exactly what you need. Valentine’s Day and the entire month of February revolves around Love – and the most important person you should be loving is you – so go ahead, make your day. ♥
And to help you out a bit, I’m showing you 4 of my favorite items that are totally self-love worthy.
- A book. Find something that interests and inspires you. A good read (or listen if you’re obsessed with audiobooks like me), is a complete game-changer. One of my favorites is Girlboss by Sophia Amoruso, the founder of Nasty Gal, a $250+ million online fashion retailer. My #1 takeaway from this book was – if you never try, how will you know? Sophia encourages using your strengths to create exactly what you want. Good stuff right here. I highly recommend you read this at least once, maybe even twice.
- Running shoes. Everyone should have a good pair of shoes to run or workout in. Do you recall – ‘if you build it, they will come?’…well, if you buy them, you will go…to the gym, the trail, somewhere to get active. Treat yourself to feeling and looking better. Obviously, my preference is always Brooks Running. If you’re a PNW local, stop by their Trailhead store in Seattle – it’s gorgeous!
- Leggings. A girl can never have too many leggings – for working out or going out – these are legitimate pants, regardless what anyone tells you. Finding a good pair can be tricky, though. I have many favorites, as you know, but one of my top picks are Bombsheller. They are ultra-comfortable, fit like a glove and best part – handmade in Seattle! I also have a promo code for you – use ObsessedbyVDay to save 10% on your first order!
- Lingerie. The ultimate treat yo’ self. Let’s be real, wearing something sexy is everything. Even if you’re the only one that knows, I guarantee a little lace can go a long way with your confidence and demeanor. It’s time to spice things up a bit. ♥ My favorite shop is Bellefleur Lingerie in the Fremont neighborhood of Seattle. They have a stunning selection of ethically-produced American and European designs.
{Photo Courtesy of Passionata}
So you ready to spoil yourself? Here are the direct links to my Top Picks:
Girlboss (via Amazon)
Bombsheller
Happy {Day After} Valentine’s ♥
XoXo Portia
Disclosure: I have received product from some of the brands listed. The opinions expressed here represent my own, which I take great pride in providing pure honesty…because I’m OBSESSED with sharing the Good!